Comparative difficulty question
As a golfer for 25 years until about five years ago when I completely gave up the game(at my best, a 7 handicaper), a fly fisherman for the past 16 years, now learning to spey beginning six years ago with a couple of classes at the Kaufmann School in Maupin with Derek Brown(not trying to name drop, but wanted to state I had good instruction to begin my spey 'career'), for me the question is very easy. Golf is much much more difficult. Golf is a game of 18 holes, at a very minimum on the usual course, 72 shots to negotiate those 18 holes, and your success, the number of shots it took YOU to negoitiate those 18 holes is the measure of your success. That success is directly proportional to the quality of EVERY shot you took. In tennis you may be asked how well you did and you can reply with "won" or "lost" six-four, six-three. . . and no one has a CLUE to how well you played unless they were there to see you. In golf you answer the same question with "oneohsix"(106) and no one NEEDS to know more about how you played! In golf you are continully fighting Father Time. Your physical skills decline and your scores rise. In a way your rising scores remind you of your mortality. No fun. Don't remind me. And the better you have been, the harder that part of golf is for you. But, I didn't leave it for that aspect alone(constant numbness in my left hand that my profession had no answer for was a factor). I left because I got BORED playing golf. The artificiality of the scene and lack of excitement in the game---everything you needed to do was there before you--sort of got to me and I left the game and the guys I played with for years.
Fishing? I don't need to make 72 good casts to have a good day. In fact a bad cast may catch the biggest fish of the day. Or, and the essence of why I fish and love it----I don't have to catch any fish in a given day to have a WONDERFUL DAY. I am sure my friends are very suspect of my activities when I head from here to the PNW or Montana. They have known for years that I will put back everything I catch. Since I have taken up the spey and the search for steelhead I now tell them that on any given trip I am mentally prepared to not catch a single fish! UMMMMMMM. Ellen, you better check on Clyde and find out what he is really doing on these trips of his! Some will just never understand and that's just the point. It's the excitement of not knowing what will happen on the next cast. The non-excitement of standing on the 8th tee looking at the 8th green is replaced by the not knowing what's around the next turn in the river. The excitement of knowing the better caster I become----a goal that was not possible in golf because of my mortality--the more successful I will be in the 'catching' part of this hobby of mine. The excitement of knowing that the day before I part this orb we are on, could have been my best day of fishing. That was not going to happen playing golf. I could go on, but you get the picture. Sorry to ramble so long, but I guess the question really punched my emote button.