Pretty well stated, for a caveman. I think you may be more of a zen caveman that most of us. I can relate to what you're saying, but I do admit that it still fries me when someone lowholes me. I guess for me it's all about the level of respect that's shown or not. It ain't exactly rocket science to observe what patch of water another angler is fishing, and low and behold they appear to be moving one direction or another...
To me it's all about respect, and I try to give far more than I ever hope to receive. If more did the same it could someday become quite the experience. There are of course some places where this is almost unheard of, and it's a joy to fish those places. I strive to your level of acceptance, both on and off the water; but I've yet to make peace with just how many jack-asses there are in the world and to the levels that they will go to serve their own interests.
Deep breaths,
JB
P.S. I could care less what kind of tackle, or presentation method one is using. It's ALL about their ethics towards:
a) the resource as a whole
b) the fish
C) other anglers
(in that order I might add)
Very well Said JB
I think the key is to focus on the 5 good guys you met on the river and not the one bad one...That's a challenge for all of us, it's human nature to focus on the 1 bad one instead, least way used to be for me. I also realized, if I got pissed, then that one butthead had the wheel and was driving the car...
Boolship to that I've decided, I'll not let it affect me, and I'll continue to respect others on the river regardless of what they do, and now that one in a few guy's irrelevant. But I still think it's more about misunderstanding than bad people more often than we think.
Case in point: This is exactly how it went down -
About 1.5 months ago I walked into a run on the lower river, perfect situation, one boat 200 yds. down stream , and the run to myself...
So I start in, fish for 10 min or so, and this gear banger fires up his sled and heads up 100 yds. above me. When he gets close, he goes out around me I say Hi, he says hi, , then in 15 yds he sucks in right on top o me shiz... So, "Zen Caveman" then is like , "Self WTF?!"
So, I simply let it go, and *****ed to myself for a bit... After 20 minutes, he's 200 yds. down river and heads back up again...
Then the light went off
He was there befor I was and was making multiple passes in that run, when I showed up, I jumped in "his" spot ! I "Low holed" him ! You know how those frigg'n spey guys are!!:saevilw:
See what I mean about misunderstanding..........
I know that many situations are different, but I bet many or closer to the same than we think, and since nobody talks much these days, The next guy has no idea what the other guy thinks, wants, is going to do, etc...
Perception is often far from reality
